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5 Brutal Reasons Woman Are Actually TURNED OFF by Sarcastic Men
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Some great insight for men. As always I hope you find this helpful!
Feel free to contact us if there is any topic you would like myself of Debbie to dive into further.
If You REALLY Love Someone Ask Them These 10 Questions EVERY Day
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Hope you find it useful. As always we’re here to support you before, during, and after your wedding!
Grand Canyon State
Debbie and I are enjoying a couple weeks off in sunny Arizona. We’ve been relaxing with friends, family, and a lot of bike riding. Last weekend we were also able to host a marriage fitness seminar. It was a great opportunity for us to mix work with pleasure. We really enjoyed meeting and working with couples wanting to strengthen their marriages. Big thank you to New Hope Community Center for hosting the event! We look forward to coming back next year. We’ll be back in Chicagoland in about a week. Can’t wait to get back to meeting couples and officiating some weddings!
Coming to Mesa!
“Marriage Fitness”(link is external) a seminar about “What Your Partner Needs To Feel Loved”.
Friday, February 19th, 2015 9:00-6:00pm
New Hope Community Center
6915 E. University Dr., Mesa, AZ 85207
To Register, please call Harold and Kay Kraver at 602-791-0569 or email them at: Hdkraver@gmail.com(link sends e-mail) Or email Tom Cooper at tcooper@bccmesa.com(link sends e-mail)
You’ll Learn:
Why your wife doesn’t think you listen to her and what to do about it.
Steps on listening so she feels truly heard and loved.
How to show him the respect he needs as a man and how to avoid unintentionally telling him you don’t respect him.
It’s all part of a fun, interactive experience to help you implement what you learn.
Your presenters are Doctors David and Debbie McFadden who have been counseling couples and leading seminars for over thirty years. You’ll love their great tag-team approach in presenting the perspectives of both genders as they teach and the open way they share what they’ve learned from their own relationship.
Build a Lasting Marriage
I wanted to share a couple of articles that my wife Debbie and I recently wrote. We truly are committed to helping couples build and strengthen their relationships with one another. We hope you find these articles useful and can apply what you learn to your relationship.
Applying Workplace Appreciation to Save Our Marriage(link is external)
Recent Articles
Please check out recent articles published by myself and my wife Debbie McFadden.
Subconscious Habits That Affect Your Marriage(link is external)
Evaluating Expectations in Your Marriage to Better Manage Conflict
Engagement Season
We are in one of the busiest engagement seasons of the year. According to Wedding Wire(link is external) 40% of engagements happen between November and February! Most couples typically don’t arrange their officiant until the end of their wedding planning process. This can cause last minute scrambling to find one. I highly recommend you start looking early to ensure you find the right one. My schedule is filling up quickly so don’t hesitate to reach out.
Classy Riverside Celebration
Zigmunt and Jennifer were married on December 20 at The Herrington(link is external) in Geneva. When I arrived the bride and groom were outside by the river getting some pictures taken before the wedding and a strong wind was howling up the river behind them from the south. When Jennifer finally came inside and I shook her hand, she was really cold. When they went outside for a second round of pictures with the family, a wrap appeared from somewhere and Jennifer was able to cover her shoulders and arms. This was an amazing wedding considering the couple just made the decision on December 1. The setting was beautiful with all of the Christmas decorations. There was a stringed trio that played for the wedding and the reception. I felt a little “height challenged” by this couple but they were really great to work with. There was a lot of emotion expressed by both as they recited their vows to one another and I was glad to be a part of their big day.
Surprise Bagpipes
Mike and Meghan were married on December 19 at Eaglewood Resort in Itasca. This place if beautiful and much larger than I expected, sitting on over 100 acres and with almost 300 hotel rooms and a seeming endless supply of meeting and banquet rooms. They are just a few blocks from the intersection of Lake Street, 355 and 290. I had never seen it before because it is a few blocks north of Lake Street. Mike and Meghan were a really fun couple to work with. They are both easy going, really into each other and didn’t seem to be a bit anxious about their wedding – although a story Meghan told me before we started the wedding sounded like someone in the group was a little tense. Mike and I walked in and took our spot front and center, both moms came in and were seated and the lighted then candles for the unity celebration. Everyone was surprised when the next thing to take place was a bagpiper playing his pipes and walking down the center aisle. Mr. Pipes stood off the side up front and played throughout the procession and then left after the bride arrived. This was another ceremony with laughter, tears, fun and seriousness and it ended with a great celebration as bride and groom kissed. The bag piper entered and played as he made his way to front again and then escorted the bride and groom to the back of the room where he continued to play until the bridal party had all exited. It was a first for me and I loved it – I had a great Irish Blessing at the end and then the Bag Pipes!
Fireside Ceremony
Ricky and Allie were married on December 12 at Westwood Tavern in Schaumburg. The restaurant is huge on the ground floor and the upper level is even larger – plus there is a large decorative room in the basement where Ricky and Allie had their reception. The wedding was in a large wooden room on the 2nd floor that was decorated for Christmas. We stood in front of the burning fireplace for the wedding. Allie was a little nervous before the ceremony began, so I spent a little extra time with her and she was beaming and beautiful when she came down the aisle. Ricky was very taken with emotion when he saw her and I gave him a handkerchief. The ceremony had just the right touch of fun, laughter, tears, seriousness and romance.