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A Wedding Ceremony is a once in a lifetime event. On your wedding day you stand before your family and friends and declare a commitment to share the rest of your life with you chosen partner. For most of us the only thing we now about a wedding ceremony is what we have seen if…
It was a real pleasure to work with Alexander and Melanie and to be the officiant for their wedding. The couple resides in Louisiana and until recently we did most of our planning by online video conferencing. These two are former Marines and met as they were being deployed to combat duty. The worked hard…
Ron and Christy were married at the Enzo and Lucia Ristorante in Long Grove on Saturday, July 14. We had originally planned to have the wedding outside by a beautiful fountain in the back garden area of the restaurant, but it was raining lightly and the wedding was moved inside to one of the private…
Sarah and Mike invited me to be involved in their wedding ceremony at Kuipers Farm in Maple Park on Friday the 13th of July. I had a great time officiating their ceremony and they were fun to work with. Kuipers Farm is a great setting for an outdoor wedding and they have a fun train…
I had never officiated a wedding before at the Trinity Episcopal Church in Wheaton for Juan and Jenice on June 16, 2018. The original chapel of the church is a beautiful building that dates from the 1800’s and is a perfect setting for a wedding. The all dark wood building has super high arches and beautiful stained…
The Weston Hotel in Itasca was the setting for the wedding I officiated for Leo and Mary on June 15, 2018. I had not been at this venue and is it ever a beautiful setting for a wedding. Attached to the hotel is a giant air conditioned/heated tent that overlooks the lake and is a wonderful place…
I officiated the ceremony for Robert and Rachel in a forest preserve on Saturday, June 16 which was a day that came close to setting the record high temperature and the wedding was in the full sun at 1:00 PM. Guest had to park about ¼ mile away and they had a golf card shuttling them to…
Michael and Tina choose me as their wedding officiant for their June 23, 2018 wedding at Venuti’s Italian Restaurant & Banquet Hall. I had the opportunity to attend the rehearsal dinner in the restaurant and it was a wonderful meal and what a friendly family to meet! Michael and Tina wrote their own vows and when they read…
I officiated the wedding for Johnny and Rabiya at Chateau Ritz in Niles on Milwaukee Road on June 23, 2018. It was my first time at this venue and it is a great setting for a wedding, There is plenty of parking, a great upstairs room for the bride to prepare and it is big enough that they took…
Debbie wrote and excellent article on becoming soulmates with your spouse(link is external). Hope you enjoy.
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Dr. David McFadden is a Wedding Officiant and also a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Dr. McFadden has consucted over 35,000 hours of marriage counseling at a therapist and has specialized training as a premairtal counselor.
Dr. David and Dr. Debbie McFadden have been patrolling American Bike Trails to rid them of Roving Bands of Marauders. Keeping America’s Trail Safe Again.
Good communication is the foundation of any marriage, but communication issues continue to be the number one reason that couples seek counseling. Often it is just some simple bad habits causing the problems. Once it gets started, negative patterns tend to escalate when both spouses repeat them. In this interactive workshop, we will take a look at some of the most common barriers and mistakes in communication patterns in marriage, and you will learn how they can be resolved.
how to spot and deal with Troublesome and Toxic people. Almost every group will have one or more of what we call “EGRs.” EGR stands for: Extra Grace Required. These are well-meaning but high-demanding people who can derail a group discussion if not dealt with in a healthy, biblical way. In addition to this, there are often Toxic individuals who have little to no regard to the damage they leave in their wake when they get involved in a church. We will be teaching on how to spot these individuals and deal with them directly, firmly and graciously before they cause division and chaos.
It is not usually a question of IF you will face a crisis in your life together as a couple; it is more a question of WHEN you will face an unexpected crisis. Successful and thriving marriages are not immune to “Life Happening.” In thriving marriages, both individuals have learned how to work together as a team and to effectively cope with and adapt to the changes that occur in life. In this interactive workshop, you will learn how to effectively communicate, cope with and adapt to the unexpected changes that happen throughout your marriage.
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